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Outshining Trauma by Ralph De La Rosa

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Matt Bianca
May 28, 2025
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In Outshining Trauma, Ralph De La Rosa, a therapist, meditation teacher, and trauma survivor, masterfully weaves together the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model with Buddhist meditation practices to offer a groundbreaking path to healing. His central message is both simple and profound: healing from trauma can not only relieve suffering but also lead us to discover our deepest spiritual nature.

The book presents a clear and accessible explanation of IFS, helping readers understand that the mind is made up of different “parts,” each carrying its own experiences, emotions, and intentions. De La Rosa introduces us to the common roles within IFS : “Managers,” “Firefighters,” and “Exiles”. He shows how trauma can cause these parts to become stuck in protective but limiting roles.

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